Weaving the Web
Intuitive guidance and care for
grief & other shrouded seasons
For lonely times and grief-filled times
Together, we’ll move through practices to discover and remember:
the many beings & beloveds that surround & support you
your essential place in the web of life
For all the times the web of life feels frayed and fraught
In liminal, transitional,
grief-filled and
shrouded seasons,
I’ll walk with you as you
find your way.
How we’ll work together
… a light that honors and partners with the dark,
allowing you to find the wisdom there.
“Grief care with Heather gave me a sense of calm, support and direction in a very distressing time. Connecting with the plants, ancestors, animals and unseen spirits was the missing ingredient in my grief process and Heather facilitates this work with so much thoughtfulness and care. I left every session feeling hopeful, held, and so much lighter. This work was transformative, giving me new rituals and ways of relating to life that continue to deepen and support me. I'm beyond grateful for Heather and Grief Care!”
Former client
Perhaps you’ve found yourself at the edge of the dark woods; at the mouth of the cave; stepping over a threshold of grief.
The path ahead is unknown, but going back isn’t an option.
You don’t need to be fixed, no matter what others (or that voice inside) say, but you do need support and care.
In Weaving the Web, I walk alongside you in your grief. I welcome in all of who you are, and what you carry.
Along the way, we’ll invite Others in to offer their care and wisdom: Ancestors, plant and elemental kin, your own deepest self.
“"It was all so supportive. My favorite bits were our landing/grounding meditations, the tea and earth ritual held so potently, and tarot cards at the end. I've brought both tea and tarot into my life thanks to this work and I love them both! :) :) The sliding scale is incredibly generous, especially given the quality of the care, and this allowed me to get support I would not have received otherwise.”
Former client
Through working with Heather, I learned how my grief is a river; a portal. She taught me how to transmute numbness and despair into something more sacred and alive. Through her gifts and guidance, I was able to re-engage with, and re-imagine reverence; for nature, with ancestors living and past, for the trees, and even eventually, for my grief itself. Heather is extremely intuitive, and her wisdom makes Grief Care so expansive, revolutionary, and profound. It was a transformative time for me. I am so grateful.
Former client
“I felt more grounded and supported by the world around me. Afterwards, I dove into ancestor work, which now supports me on the daily. My time in grief care not only helped me grieve the loss but also taught me ways to resource support after our time together.”
Former client
Weaving the Web lights the way in dark and uncertain times…
“I feel attuned and resourced enough to attend to my grief, with ritual and with care. I can look to guidance with nature, poetry, music, or tarot. I don't feel numb anymore, I feel my grief is sacred now. It can still be painful, but its also...I understand it more as its own organism moving so closely with love as well, it has its own power. I also have such a newfound gratitude for the wind, for water, for trees, and for listening closely to the lands I'm on. And finding the languages of animism also had a profound effect on me as well. I'm very much changed from Grief Care.”
Former client
With intention and care, you and your grief are supported through:
Gentle, relational listening and intutive reflection and guidance
Nurturing your connection to the web of being for care and support
Practices such as art, journaling, tarot and oracle cards to better understand and support your grief
At each session, I’ll share a custom-crafted herbal tea.
I offer free, 15 minute consultations over zoom, to decide whether Weaving the Web is the right fit for you. You can schedule that here, ore reach out by email the available sessions don’t work for you.
For any session, please see my scheduling page for discount codes to support financial access.
If you prefer to meet virtually for your Weaving the Web sessions, please indicate this when scheduling.
Frequently asked questions
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I meet with folks in-person at the Portland Grief House. I also welcome meeting virtually (just reach out to request this after scheduling). People often like to meet in the forest as well, and we we can talk about and schedule this time in our work together.
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No, this is not therapy. Weaving the Web is offered as supportive presence and deep listening; it can be considered counseling or coaching. To support you, I guide and accompany you as you reweave your relationships with the more-than-human world; your wise and well ancestors and kin (if this fits for you); and with your own embodied wisdom.
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Weaving the Web is for anyone who needs gentle support in a challenging time. You may be grieving the loss of a beloved being or experience; in a liminal or transitional season; or just unclear about the path ahead. I work with the more-than-human world to support anyone moving through these shrouded seasons.
You are welcome here.
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I carry over 20 years of professionally working with crisis, trauma, and grief. I carry a lifetime (and beyond) of personally working with my own and others’ grief.
In my own life, I have experienced grief through the death of many beloveds, including my father, other kin, a beloved friend, and animal companions. I’ve grieved the experience of infertility and miscarriages, divorce, and my own stable ground while living with mental and emotional health struggles.
If you’d like to learn more about me and my experiences working with grief, please visit my About page. You are also welcome to reach out to hello@rosecedarforesttherapy.com.
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I do not accept insurance. I do offer discount codes to support financial access. Please see this page for more information and discount codes.
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I am happy to wear a mask if requested. Please don’t hesitate to ask. If you are feeling sick at all, please reschedule your appointment (I will do the same). Please reach out with any questions.
Please note that Weaving the Web is not therapy. It is offered as a form of grief support which is grounded in nurturing relationships with the more-than-human world, wise and well ancestors and guides, and your own embodied wisdom.
We carry grief in our hearts, minds, bodies, spirits, families, communities - every part of our lives can be touched by grief.
Hard to hold and often
impossible to put down,
it seeps into the bones, and lights up the nervous system.
Grief can be so very big. It can take up our whole world - an overlay everywhere we look.
And it can be so very small - infusing every cell, and every breath we take.
I believe that it’s in turning to our larger world, to the web that holds us and gives us life,
that we can truly be held.
This is who I call on and partner with to
help us hold your grief.
How I think about and
work with grief ~
Too often I’ve seen grieving people receive the message that their grief is too much.
Grievers are told they should be over it - they should be fixed, strong, healed. Our grief and our grieving selves are seen as a problem to be solved - or turned aside and turned away.
We may be pushed out of the circles we hold dear. People are scared, they’re unsure, they’re uncomfortable. They don’t know what to do, and they just want us to be “better.”
I’ve come to believe that “better” is too limited an aspiration.
Instead, I think of grief as an experience that can become integrated into our lives. This integration can be both supportive and deeply meaningful.
We can even, sometimes, find joy, magic, and connection inside of and alongside our grief.
The trees that give us breath, the soil that gives us life, the beings of air and earth and water, seen and unseen - they are our family, and they want to support us. We can ask for their help, support, love, and guidance.
I am here to be that person that is not afraid, and to help you
forge, reweave and nurture your connection with your more-than-human kin.
To learn more, you are welcome to schedule a free 15 minute consultation, or email hello@rosecedarforesttherapy.com.
Some other important things to know:
I have learned that our grief is thorougly entangled with who we are and the world we live in. Our experience of grief is our own, and is deeply woven with our intersecting identities; our relationships with family and ancestors; the body we live in/are; access to financial resources; and more. In my work, I honor the tension between grief as a universal experience, and as a totally unique and individual one.
In my work with grieving people (and in all areas of my life) I work for liberation and justice, and I welcome all of who you are.
I believe it’s also important to state my identities and some of the life experiences I bring to Two Torches. I am a white, cis, queer femme, woman. I am Jewish (complicatedly so, as many of us are), and also a descendant of Irish, Scottish, and German ancestors. I am a deeply grateful animist.
No matter what you’re grieving for, your grief matters, and you deserve care and support. If I am not the right fit for what you need and want, I will do my best to help you find other resources.
The grief support I offer is considered counseling or coaching, not therapy.
If you are in urgent need of mental health support and are in Multnomah County, please call the Crisis Line at 503-988-4888 and find other urgent resources here. Click here for national crisis lines, or dial 988.